Ranting #48
Advice
good advices always fall on deaf ears... especially on me... think i always believe in myself more than i listen to others... which is a very bad thing to do... really bad and i really hope i can change that... been thinking thru about things lately... realised that i seldom listen to what others say... haiz...
think many many years back when i was just a little ger...
every cny my mom will buy a small bag/clutch for me so that i can put angpows in during visits to relatives... usually my mom will choose for me... but there was this year that she let me choose the bag that i want, even though she had a preference for one already... as she was suggesting to me which one to buy... i chose another one with a feathery exterior which looked more fanciful (recall that i was still a very young ger... around 5 or 6 yrs old bah) and is more expensive... of cos mom tried to persuade me to buy a simpler one... but i'm very stubborn and mom had no choice but to buy the one that i liked...
think during the cny that bag was actually dirtied and the feathers fell off one by one... mom did not say much but i felt very sad... i knew if i had just listened to mom and bought the simple design one... maybe things might not be the same...
think mom knows best... and so now i usually listen to mom's suggestion as far as possible... i dun wanna regret things and feel sad anymore...
which actually made me feel that i love my parents so much and i actually depend (emotionally) alot on them... u might ask why the sudden outburst... cos i just heard from a friend that her dad was hospitalised... wonder how i would feel if my parent was hospitalised...
think everyone should cherish your parents as far as possible... they care for you selflessly and they never ask for anything in return... imagine how naughty we were when we were much younger... how rebellious... how hurtful it was to them when we chooses our friends over them... yet no matter how bad we are... we are still the apple of their eye... they still love us... yet when things happen to them (eg. old age, sickness...) we usually push to our siblings or grumble when they seem to add on to our troubles... refusing to love them the way they used to love us...
reflect on your actions my friends... love your parents more... before its too late...
*P.S : think i'm a bit emotional today... too many things happen recently...
good advices always fall on deaf ears... especially on me... think i always believe in myself more than i listen to others... which is a very bad thing to do... really bad and i really hope i can change that... been thinking thru about things lately... realised that i seldom listen to what others say... haiz...
think many many years back when i was just a little ger...
every cny my mom will buy a small bag/clutch for me so that i can put angpows in during visits to relatives... usually my mom will choose for me... but there was this year that she let me choose the bag that i want, even though she had a preference for one already... as she was suggesting to me which one to buy... i chose another one with a feathery exterior which looked more fanciful (recall that i was still a very young ger... around 5 or 6 yrs old bah) and is more expensive... of cos mom tried to persuade me to buy a simpler one... but i'm very stubborn and mom had no choice but to buy the one that i liked...
think during the cny that bag was actually dirtied and the feathers fell off one by one... mom did not say much but i felt very sad... i knew if i had just listened to mom and bought the simple design one... maybe things might not be the same...
think mom knows best... and so now i usually listen to mom's suggestion as far as possible... i dun wanna regret things and feel sad anymore...
which actually made me feel that i love my parents so much and i actually depend (emotionally) alot on them... u might ask why the sudden outburst... cos i just heard from a friend that her dad was hospitalised... wonder how i would feel if my parent was hospitalised...
think everyone should cherish your parents as far as possible... they care for you selflessly and they never ask for anything in return... imagine how naughty we were when we were much younger... how rebellious... how hurtful it was to them when we chooses our friends over them... yet no matter how bad we are... we are still the apple of their eye... they still love us... yet when things happen to them (eg. old age, sickness...) we usually push to our siblings or grumble when they seem to add on to our troubles... refusing to love them the way they used to love us...
reflect on your actions my friends... love your parents more... before its too late...
*P.S : think i'm a bit emotional today... too many things happen recently...
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